Showing posts with label Renewal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Renewal. Show all posts

Monday, October 6, 2025

The Fantasy World We Created



Sometimes I feel broken down into fragments,
future that cannot mend.
I feel myself slipping into a dark void,
into an abyss yesterday created.

I am all grown up now, and mysteries
unravel in the face of reality.
What seemed doomed has gained life,
and buried mistakes have taken a toll on me—
a hard revenge against what we created.

What our hands created—a thing we called ours,
because we partook in making it—
a co-creation that became
a gazette desert of nightmares and hallucinations,
things of a demonic fantasy world.

I now dream of spring fields,
summer chaos,
the ninth of July,
and all we meant when we said we loved each other—
which was all a lie.

I still imagine how you’d knot my tie,
or prepare an apple pie for breakfast.
How we joked we’d die if we weren’t together,
how you’d cry on your bed at night
because I couldn’t be there to cuddle you till morning.
And yet, you hoped everything would be alright.

I was too frail, lost in daydreams,
too blinded by your love.
Your beautiful eyes made me a puppet
when you stared into my soul.
I felt magic all over me.
I felt love.
I got lost in your world of fantasy—
where you held me frozen with your angelic touch,
the melody on your sweet lips.

How could I not see?
How could I fail to see the world through an angle of sanity?
How could I not realize that all was vanity?
The world we created was never meant to be.

How could I not hear
the reverse of the songs we danced to,
the betrayal behind the kiss in the rain?
How could I not realize
we were just living in a fantasy world we created





Tuesday, July 1, 2025

Procrastination: Ending procrastination in 2025

 

As a computer enthusiast, you open your design software, writing app or your workspace, fully ready to create something productive. But first, you need “inspiration" to start the work. One hour, two hours three hours and there you are, you’ve done everything else except the thing you actually wanted to do at that particular time. That is the disease called procrastination.

According to the Oxford dictionary, procrastination:  Refers to an act of delaying something you should usually because you do not want to do it or it's boring.

           

Differences between Laziness and Procrastination

Laziness, indolence, or sloth should not be confused with procrastination. To procrastinate which means, ‘to forward to tomorrow’ in Latin is to postpone a task in favor of other tasks which are less taxing but also less important or urgent.

To postpone a task for practical or strategic purposes does not amount to procrastination; for a postponement to amount to procrastination, it has to represent poor and ineffective planning, and result in a higher overall cost to the procrastinator.

For example, it’s one thing to delay a tax return until all the numbers are in, but quite another to delay it so that it ruins our holiday or lands us with a fine.

Both the lazybones and the procrastinators lack motivation. But unlike the lazy person, the procrastinator aspires or intends to complete the task, and, moreover, eventually does—albeit at a higher overall cost to him- or her-self.

 

Consequences of chronic procrastination

Cross-sectional studies suggest that procrastination is associated with symptoms of depression, anxiety and stress as well as loneliness and reduced life satisfaction

Procrastination is also associated with prevalent general physical health problems like cardiovascular disease and unhealthy lifestyle behaviors

Productivity and performance impact like missed deadlines and reduced quality of work

Damage to trust and credibility as a person you lose your worth and public admiration due to not being able to attend to importance assignments.

 

Why you need to get rid of procrastination in 2025?

 

Productivity and goal achievement: Have you ever been in a situation where you regret having taken long to or not doing it at well. Well, that is why you should plan and implement

            

Mental Health and Well-being: For you to be free from stress, anxiety and pressure which can affect one in one way or the other. You have to stop postponing tasks for tomorrow that never comes

 

Making The Most Of Opportunities: Some opportunities avail themselves in narrow and restrict times but that is the way of life one should get used to being prepared for any opportunity and grab with both hands

 

 Developing Self-Discipline and Self-Control: Imagine being in class knowing you have done your homework and your classmates haven't done it and bomb the teacher asks for the work. How confident you'd be!. That is the same thing. Do your work in time.

 

Why Do We Procrastinate? 

Temporal Discounting 

Fear of Failure

Lack of Motivation

 Task Aversion 

 Low Self-Control or Executive Dysfunction

 

To get rid of procrastination practice these principles:

 

Break your tasks at hand into Smaller Steps that can be achieved at a particular time frame

The 5-Minute Rule: Is a simple strategy for overcoming procrastination by committing to work on a task for just five minutes. After the five minutes you can decide if you want to continue with the task or stop.

Time Blocking: In this case you divide your day into specific task at a particular time 

Pomodoro Technique: Work for twenty five minutes rest for five minutes and vice versa through out they day

Remove Distractions: Things that distract you should be far away from you like phones, computers  among others

Self-Compassion: Be calm. Composed and self-motivated to do the work with an alacritous heart

 

 

Try one technique today and comment and share your progress. Invite readers to reflect on their habits as we move this journey together.

 


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